Give her a few compliments throughout the day. Tell her that she is beautiful or how great she is with the kids. Let her know that she makes you happy and that you can’t wait to snuggle up with her that night.
Say thank you. Thank her for the many everyday things that she does for you that you sometimes take for granted and don’t always show her appreciation for
Show interest in her friends or family. Ask her how they are doing and let her know you enjoy spending time with them.
Take her for a short walk on a nice day and hold her hand the whole time.
Make her laugh. Tell her about something funny that happened at work or remind her of a funny memory you shared together.
When you see her at the end of a long day gives her a hug and don’t let go until she does. Don’t say the first word; just hold her as long as she is willing.
Ask her what she would like you to cook for her and then tell her to sit down and relax. This is a way to get on her good side.
Ask her open ended questions about a hobby or something she is currently passionate about. Just let her talk about it while you listen.
Find something she can do very well and ask her to teach you how. (braiding your daughters hair, ironing shirts the way she does, how to cook a certain meal, etc)
Surprise her by showing up during your lunch break with a packed lunch for you to share and spend more time together.
Go window shopping together with the rule that you are not going to buy anything. Just enjoy the time together. Go to the stores she wants to go to.
Cook her breakfast
Ask for her advice on something you are dealing with at work. Let her know that she is smart and you value her opinion.
Rub her feet, neck, back or whatever she likes best. Do so with the sole intend of helping her relax. No strings attached. This is a great way to get on your wife's good side.
Instead of catching up on your day while you are doing dishes, folding laundry, or cleaning up toys. Grab her by the hand, take her to the other room and have a conversation while making actual eye contact.
As soon as you walk in the door give her a kiss and ask, “What can I do for you tonight? Clean? Cook? Give you a massage?”
Leave her a handwritten love note in the morning before you head out for the day.
Tell her to relax and watch a show while you put the kids to bed.
Get dressed up nice for her…not in a tuxedo but in something you know she thinks you look handsome in. Put on a little cologne and the first moment when the kids are not around after you get home, embrace her and surprise her with a passionate kiss (With no further expectations).
Think about a goal she is working towards. Ask her what you can do to help her achieve it.
Let her know you are not too busy at work today and ask her if there are any errands you can run for her during your lunch break.
Sit closer to her than you normally do. Hold her hand. Sounds easy right? Sit next to her at the dinner table instead of on the other end or even closer on the couch when watching TV. Just take it up a notch and show more affection!
When kids are around as you are getting dinner ready, look at one of them and ask, “hey, doesn’t your mom look beautiful today?” Let the kids know how lucky they are to have such an amazing mom.
Ask her to give you a list of 3 things she would like done in the home and then get them done right away. This is a great way to make your wife happy.
When one of your children show her disrespect (which they do often) come down on them instantly and demand that they apologize right away and show her respect.
Let her sleep in on a Saturday or Sunday morning. Take the kids out of the house early in the morning and leave a note that lets her know she deserved a morning to sleep in. Then return with some handpicked flowers once she is awake.
Call her during the day to see how she is doing. Let her know you miss her and are excited to spend time with her when you get home.